Stop Doing This Right Now! 22 Unwritten Rules Everyone Should Follow (7 photos)

You don't need to know every single rule of etiquette to treat others with basic human decency. A Reddit user recently started a thread asking people about their biggest pet peeves regarding public behavior. The post blew up, drawing over 3,400 comments. Loud phone calls, unpaid debts, and invasive questions topped the list of annoying habits to avoid if you don't want to drive people crazy. Read on for the unwritten rules of modern etiquette.





Good manners are the foundation of peaceful coexistence. Unfortunately, many people disregard the comfort of others, putting themselves first. The Reddit thread struck a chord, sparking a lively discussion where users shared their best advice on how to act so you don't make everyone around you uncomfortable.

Here are 22 unwritten rules everyone should know.



1. When someone shows you a photo on their phone, don't swipe left or right to look at other pictures.

2. Don't watch videos with the sound on in a coffee shop or restaurant.

3. If you borrow something, return it in the exact same condition you received it.

4. Don't expect friends to give you discounts just because you know them.





5. Chew with your mouth closed.

6. Don't pee on public toilet seats—and if you mess up, please wipe it clean.

7. Flash your hazard lights to thank someone who lets you merge on the road. It's basic driving etiquette.

8. Never drop by someone's home unannounced. Always check with them beforehand.

9. If you have an issue with a company, remember that the call center rep isn't to blame. They can't personally fix the system failure; they're just logging your request. Don't yell at or insult them—they're just an employee, not the CEO.



10. Stand on the right side of the escalator so people can walk past on the left.

11. If you borrow money—even a small amount—and promise to pay it back, always keep your word.

12. Never comment on someone's weight, whether they've lost or gained it. It's rude either way.

13. Don't talk loudly on the phone on public transit. It's uncomfortable for everyone around you.



14. Wear deodorant before going out into public spaces.

15. Never ask a woman if she's pregnant. You don't know her health situation, and it's out of line.

16. If someone else is footing the bill at a restaurant, don't order the most expensive item on the menu.

17. If you scheduled a business meeting but can't make it, cancel in advance or let them know you won't be there.



18. Don't give unsolicited advice or offer opinions when nobody asked.

19. If you want to vent about personal problems or touch on sensitive topics, ask first if the person has the bandwidth to talk about it.

20. Don't bombard people with chatter or favors if you can see they're exhausted or busy.



21. Don't drink the last beer if you didn't buy it.

22. Whoever goes to bed last turns off the lights.

We are taught good behavior from an early age, but some key rules of etiquette are often forgotten—even by those who consider themselves well-mannered.