Men shower me with expensive gifts, but I don't cook or sleep with them. I'm completely useless and proud of it (6 photos)

Jenny Jakkila fundamentally reconsidered her views on romantic relationships after falling in love for the first time. "During our time together, I became increasingly unhappy, exhausted, and eventually burned out, juggling work, university, and paying bills 50/50," she admits.





"When I realized things couldn't go on like this, my ex decided to take full responsibility for providing for the family.

I now have the time and energy to focus on my health and well-being, as well as delve deeper into spirituality and manifestation practices."

I learned a lot about feminine energy and its magnetic power. At the same time, I noticed how my chosen one changed as he took on the role of provider.

She added: "His business literally took off within a month. We were happy together for several more years. We visited almost 30 countries, and he carried all the financial costs. But in the end, we decided to go our separate ways."



Jenny is originally from Finland but now lives in Berlin, Germany.

She explains: "A provider man strives to take care of women, especially his own. For such men, it is important to be a protector and supporter. He sincerely respects and values ​​femininity and doesn't calculate who gets more in a relationship."





A 30-year-old Finnish woman believes that women should only be with men who "bring them some benefit."

"A man should make a woman's life better: pay bills, give gifts, fulfill her requests, and help her. A woman's presence is priceless to a man. It heals and fills his life with joy and light. Meeting a beautiful woman elevates his status. We invest a lot of effort into helping men cope with their emotions."



Jenny waits three to four months before deciding whether to enter into a serious relationship with a dating partner.

"I view physical intimacy as an exchange of energy. There are few men with whom I'm willing to share that energy. I'm also aware of the risks, such as pregnancy and STDs."

"I think it's wise to date for at least three to four months before even considering intimacy, because consistency is truly the only way to reveal someone's true character and intentions."

"But even if our relationship is non-intimate, I still expect a man to provide for me because I give him my time and energy. Of course, they give me bags and clothes, and take me on vacation. I choose men who can provide me with a decent standard of living. I prefer ambitious entrepreneurs."



Jakkila maintains social media and shares her views on relationships.

"I often receive threats from men, especially with sexual overtones. I don't take them seriously, since most of my ill-wishers remain in Finland," she admits.

Jenny believes that women are taught from childhood to blindly believe in love and men. This propaganda is found in films, books, and music.

"The Disney fantasy of romantic love can lead women to become victims of manipulation, abuse, and serious psychological trauma," she believes.



When choosing partners, she advises being selfish.

"I'm completely useless and proud of it. I don't cook, I don't clean, and frankly, I don't even want to live with a man. Women are conditioned to give, give, give, until they have nothing left. Men are selfish by nature, and if a woman wants to be with them, she needs to put herself first. She's always the prize. A man should pay for a woman. It's the least he can do. And she's giving him her precious time, energy, and attention. Even communicating with him is a risk for her," the girl concluded.